It was so exciting speaking with parents and grandparents who were helping each other with remembering and celebrating prom with their families. I had this photo of eggs and asked, "What hatched that surprised you?" They were expecting party photos which we also had but this one caught them off guard.
Surprises are fun. The unexpected came forward with Kleenex and giggles:
• I never thought he would kiss a girl. He just wanted his skateboard
• I never thought she would wear a flower in her hair...too girly.
• I never thought she would let me teach her the rock back dance.
• I never thought she wanted to go back East to college.
• I didn't think I would cry. I am not emotional.
• I never made a scrapbook.
• I don't like his girlfriend.
• Eggs, chicks, we never had pets at home.
• I didn't get enough time with my little girl and she is so grown up now.
I love the idea of passing on memories, suggestions, and enjoying reminiscing about good times. We seem to have a habit of focusing on what has to be fixed or is impossible to shift.
Who could you help? What do you need? What is easy to ask for and uncomfortable? What aren't you talking about these days?
Are your kids going to prom in a group, without dates? What has changed since your other children went to prom? Is this your first prom experience as a parent?
Share with us your comments.
Have fun,
Natalie
Natalie@emptynestsupport.com
818-763-0188
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